When I ask that question of course I do not mean
ALL women but some. Have you ever noticed that in certain situations no matter who may be involved, that some women blame some women for situations involving men? How is this possible? Why is this happening? Lets take a look at some situations where women blame other women.
(1) CHEATING~ I have talked to many women and have read many articles that have talked about cheating. Many women find their men cheating with women, whether she is called the other woman, the side piece, the one night stand, the home wrecker, the booty call, etc... you get the point. In these instances, I would say most, the women usually blame the other woman instead of blaming the man. When I hear this I find this very interesting and wrong. Why do I say this? I say this because some women say that these women may have known that these man are married, in a committed relationship and/or has a woman. That may be absolutely true BUT isn't it the man that (A) has taken an active role in the cheating (B) has made a commitment/or is in a relationship with his woman. Isn't it the man who has STEPPED OUTSIDE OF HIS RELATIONSHIP?
(2)
RAPE~ In SOME instances, and notice I did say some, when a woman gets raped, women have a tendency to take the side of the males. They may say something like, if she didn't wear that tight dress she would not have been raped,
OR, if she had not worn that short skirt she would not have been raped,
OR, if she would not have flirted with him, she would not have been raped,
OR, if her breast were not hanging out of her clothes she would not have been raped. I think these are foolish notions. Why? These are foolish notions because it is a known fact that when men RAPE IT IS A CONTROL issue. RAPE is usually about dominance, and control, about taking something with force.
(3)
CHILD ABUSE~ In some instances there is child abuse. It is a bad situation where all in the family is affected. When child abuse occurs some have mentioned that it is the woman's fault. This is usually said when the woman is the care taker, which is 90% of the time. Even if the father of the child lives in the home or even has an active and equal share in the child's life. I don't know why the woman is to blame because the child belongs to a mother and a father and they have an equal amount of responsibility for the welfare of their child.
THERE YOU HAVE IT. MY TAKE ON THE MATTER. Please tell me how you feel on the subject. Please LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT AND SUBSCRIBE. Until the next time, Keep it light, simple and real. BE KIND, BE CARING, BE LOVEABLE, AND DON"T BLAME WOMEN!
(1) CHEATING~ I have talked to many women and have read many articles that have talked about cheating. Many women find their men cheating with women, whether she is called the other woman, the side piece, the one night stand, the home wrecker, the booty call, etc... you get the point. In these instances, I would say most, the women usually blame the other woman instead of blaming the man. When I hear this I find this very interesting and wrong. Why do I say this? I say this because some women say that these women may have known that these man are married, in a committed relationship and/or has a woman. That may be absolutely true BUT isn't it the man that (A) has taken an active role in the cheating (B) has made a commitment/or is in a relationship with his woman. Isn't it the man who has STEPPED OUTSIDE OF HIS RELATIONSHIP?
(2) RAPE~ In SOME instances, and notice I did say some, when a woman gets raped, women have a tendency to take the side of the males. They may say something like, if she didn't wear that tight dress she would not have been raped, OR, if she had not worn that short skirt she would not have been raped, OR, if she would not have flirted with him, she would not have been raped, OR, if her breast were not hanging out of her clothes she would not have been raped. I think these are foolish notions. Why? These are foolish notions because it is a known fact that when men RAPE IT IS A CONTROL issue. RAPE is usually about dominance, and control, about taking something with force.
(3) CHILD ABUSE~ In some instances there is child abuse. It is a bad situation where all in the family is affected. When child abuse occurs some have mentioned that it is the woman's fault. This is usually said when the woman is the care taker, which is 90% of the time. Even if the father of the child lives in the home or even has an active and equal share in the child's life. I don't know why the woman is to blame because the child belongs to a mother and a father and they have an equal amount of responsibility for the welfare of their child.
THERE YOU HAVE IT. MY TAKE ON THE MATTER. Please tell me how you feel on the subject. Please LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT AND SUBSCRIBE. Until the next time, Keep it light, simple and real. BE KIND, BE CARING, BE LOVEABLE, AND DON"T BLAME WOMEN!
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