Monday, September 29, 2014

Do you have THE FILL IN THE BLANK syndrome?

Do you? Do you have the fill in the blank syndrome? I hate that some people have this syndrome. I admit that I have it sometimes BUT I am working very hard, extremely hard to get rid of this syndrome. I would LOVE to be so mature concerning this. I hate this syndrome SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO very, very much! Why? I hate this syndrome because it makes some people look IGNORANT. It makes some people look DUMB. It makes some people look ASININE. It makes some people look STUPID. It makes some people look EVIL. It makes some people look SNEAKY. It makes some people look like a COWARD. Some people ASSUME. Some people GUESS. Some people EXAGGERATE. Some people GOSSIP. Some talk from the side of their neck and the side of their brain. It is so much easier to (1) Do some research, to look for accurate knowledge or information (2) To carefully listen and/or (3) Ask ~not that you will always get the answer you desire or even the correct answer, or even the TRUTH, BUT at least you ask. Some may feel that some people use this syndrome on purpose, to cause division. To cause disturbance. To cause hostility. To cause dishonor. To cause mistrust. To cause a gap in friendships. To make one to seem dishonest. To make one to be immoral. To make one to be a LIAR. The sad thing is that sometimes it works. What is a syndrome? Well in this CASE, a syndrome is something that is a characteristic combination of opinions, emotions, and/or behavior. IT IS ALWAYS NICE TO STICK WITH THE FACTS! What are facts? Fact are things that are indisputable. They are things rooted in reality, actuality, and certainty. Facts are not rooted in feelings and emotions, nor are they rooted in guesses or dreams or opinions. When a person fills in the blank or blanks, it can prove FATAL OR DEADLY! WHAT ARE SOME FILL IN THE BLANK SITUATIONS? (1) A fill in the blank situation could be when someone, namely a woman LOVES talking to men, the opposite sex. Some insist that this mean that she is HOT, FRESH or WANTS A SEXUAL ENCOUNTER. Which can be ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE. Some may assume things, they fill in the blank with their own warped information, with their warped and misguided minds. Sometimes this is done without knowing the person, or not even knowing the person well at all. (2) Another fill in the blank situations is when a man and a woman have a very close relationship/friendship. Sometime people may feel (emotions) that because a man and a woman CAN be attracted to one another that they are definitely. Some assume that if a woman and a man are close emotionally that they must have some sort of sexual relationship. This is not always the case because every woman and man are not always attracted to one another for various reasons. Just because a man and a woman are CLOSE, that does not mean that there are sexual encounters or that there is a sexual or romantic relationship. (3) One infamous case is the case of the WALMART shooting. It is the case where the young man was killed by the police because it was ASSUMED, the BLANK WAS FILLED IN, They THOUGHT that this young man had a REAL weapon. As we all know because of assumption and NOT ACCURATE INFORMATION, this young man LOST his life! (4) One of the GREATEST misconceptions or assuming that I have mentioned before in another form is RAPE OF WOMEN. In looking into information and doing research the opinions of many vary. One common thread that I did find is the assumption of why some women get raped. Some people have etched in their minds that a woman is RAPED because she is wearing a certain type clothing, whether it is tight, sheer or even short. Which is NOT the case. Some even believe that some women get raped because they go out with a man which is NOT TRUE, NOT TRUE AT ALL. Rape is about a SICK INDIVIDUAL who wants to feel POWERFUL, who wants to HURT an individual. A RAPIST WANTS AND NEEDS CONTROL. THERE YOU HAVE IT MY GOOD PEOPLE. MY TAKE ON THE MATTER. I HAVE SO MUCH MORE TO SAY BUT I WILL KEEP IT TO MYSELF FOR ANOTHER TIME. TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK! What is on your mind? Please LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT AND GO ALL THE WAY AT THE END OF THE PAGES AND SUBSCRIBE! Until the next time, which will be VERY, VERY SOON! BE KIND, BE CAREFUL, BE LOVEABLE AND PLEASE, PLEASE DON'T ASSUME. DON'T FILL IN THE BLANK!

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