DO YOU LIKE TO LAUGH AND SMILE?

A lady was walking down the street one day when a man passed her and said SMILE. She looked at him and said, what? He said smile. She often received request from individuals that she didn't even know, to smile. She must carry a pretty mean look on her face in order for strangers to request a smile from her. A mean look can be subconscious, it can be something that one is unaware that he or she is doing for one reason or another. A mean look can also be a defense mechanism that says "stay back and no one gets hurt". One may use that look so they can be unapproachable, to keep it simple and safe. The lady was asked, do you ever smile? Her reply was of course I do, after the nice stranger made her laugh. MANY PEOPLE DO NOT LAUGH AND SMILE because they are sad, or depressed. Some people have their plates runnith over so to speak, and it may be overwhelming. It can drain happiness, laughter and smiles. The job, the marriage, the relationship, the children, the bills, the parents, the in-laws, the health issues, the education, the training, and even the news are all contributing factors. WHY SHOULD WE LAUGH AND SMILE? It has been said that laughter is good for the soul, that is has great benefits! Is there any proof to this? No, not really. There has not been any definitive proof on the matter as of yet BUT we don't need scientific research in order to know how our body reacts after laughing, do we? If we are feeling rundown? Why don't we try laughing more. Laughing may help us feel better and put that spring back in our step. Having a good sense of humor, a positive attitude, and the support of family and friends might play a role as well. SAY CHEESE FOR THE CAMERA! We just don't want to smile to show off our pearly white teeth. We want to smile because of the health benefits that come along with it. Here are a few: (1) It LOWERS OUR HEART RATE. Smiling slows the heart rate and relaxes the body. Smiling lets the heart work without overworking. Did you know that people who smile and laugh often are less likely to develop heart disease? Yes! Smiling is also known for temporarily lowering our blood pressure also. WOW! WHO knew! (2) Smiling REDUCES STRESS. Stress can cause a mountain of health problems. Smiling can help to relieve stress because it releases endorphins that counteract and diminish the stress hormones. (3) Smiling can BUILD ATTRACTION. Smiling makes us more attractive. This may be true especially for WOMEN. Men may be more likely to approach a woman who simply makes eye contact while smiling. (4) Smiling MAKES US LOOK YOUNGER. Smiling does something remarkable for the face, it lifts the face and makes us look younger, around three (3) years younger on average, so they claim. I think it is more. (LOL) There you have it my SMILING PEOPLE. There are such great benefits when we laugh and smile. By the way, the woman I was talking about in the beginning of the article, she smiles a lot more and is told that she has a BEAUTIFUL smile. Yes, you are sooo smart because you guessed it. That woman is ME, YES IT"S ME! I am working on smiling and laughing a lot more. I make it my business to laugh and smile through out the day as much as possible and I am having a great time doing it. I DO FEEL BETTER INSIDE, MUCH, MUCH BETTER INSIDE! Thanks for reading my blog post. Please COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE, LIKE AND SHARE! Until the next time, BE LOVING, BE KIND, BE CAREFUL AND MAKE SURE YOU LAUGH AND SMILE FOR YOU AND, AND FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!

PARENTAL ABUSE BY CHILDREN: Are you SCARED of your child?

Abuse of children by their parents is very common in today's society. Did you know that ABUSE OF PARENTS BY THEIR CHILDREN is ALSO common? How common? Very common BUT under reported and under researched. Parents are often subjects of a child's aggression. Parents have to deal with yelling, screaming, and other aggressive outburst from a child which usually is some form of physical and/or verbal abuse. Parents may feel somewhat ashamed and humiliated, especially if this is done in public, so they rarely seek little or no help if it gets out of hand. TEENAGE ABUSE towards their parents and even their grandparents is a problem in the United States as well as globally. It is rarely talked about or reported. Why? It is rarely talked about or reported because most family abuse is basically hidden from the public's view until the law and/or other authorities have to be called. This subject is taboo. Why? This subject is taboo because parents feel that they should be able to handle their own children and because they do not want to feel ashamed. Many parents feel that they should be able to handle the situation alone, by themselves without getting others involved. They may also feel that it is not safe for them to attempt to control the situation for fear it might make matters worse and enrage the child more. Any form of abuse is harmful to the victim as well as the abuser and may lead to more serious consequences if it is ignored. There should be an identifying and admitting that there is a problem, this is the first step to attempt to resolve the behavior. There are many types of parental abuse. A child may abuse the parent in one of the five ways or in a combination of ways. There is physical abuse, verbal abuse, psychological abuse, emotional abuse and financial abuse. Some people may say that parent abuse is a result of bad parenting, neglecting their children, or because of child abuse. This may not be true. Many children have a normal and healthy upbringing and have not suffered form abusive situations. Children may see violence on TV, in the movies, listen to violent music. This may be something that is considered "normal". The breakdown of the family unit, poor or nonexistent relationships with an absent parent, as well as, debt, unemployment, and parental drug/alcohol abuse may all be contributing factors to abuse. Some other reasons for parental abuse according to several experts are: (1) out of control arguments (2) aggressive behavior (3) frustration because they can not deal with problems (4) being a witness of abuse, whether at home or elsewhere (5) lack of respect for their parents because they see a weakness (6) fear itself (7) no accountability for bad behavior (8) drugs and alcohol (9) gang affiliation (10) not having the proper role model (11) not being able to deal with mental or disabled parents (12) mental illness (13) revenge or punishment for something the parents did or did not do. DID YOU KNOW that the highest rate of abuse happens within families with a single mother? Mothers are usually the primary caregiver; they spend more time with their children than fathers and have closer emotional connections to them. It can also be due to the size and strength of the abuser and women are often thought of as weaker and even powerless. Parental abuse can occur in any family and is not associated with ethnic background, socio-economic class, or sexual orientation. Numerous studies concluded that gender does not play a role in the total number of perpetrators; however, males are more likely to inflict physical abuse and females are more likely to inflict emotional abuse. WHAT CAN YOU DO? First of all, no one has to suffer in silence. You do not have to suffer alone. You need to take control, take back your control. Please do not give up your power. You must put a stop to the abuse! If you are suffering from Parent Abuse you must recognize that you are not at fault and do not deserve this, as with any form of abuse. Speak to a friend, or contact a domestic abuse support group. Seek professional help. THERE YOU HAVE IT FRIENDS! Please tell me what and how you feel! Please COMMENT, SHARE, LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE! Until the next time, BE KIND, BE CONSIDERATE, BE HELPFUL AND PLEASE, PLEASE BE SAFE BY ALL MEANS!

WOULD YOU WAIT FOR YOUR MATE AND BE FAITHFUL?

What if your mate got locked up for one reason or another, would you wait? Would you be able to show that type of patience? Would you able able to show that type of dedication? Would you be able to show that type of real and unconditional love? Would you wait for your mate? These are the type of questions that makes you go HMMMMMMMMM! I know, I know. You are saying that there are a lot of things to factor in like: Why is he/she in jail? How long will he/she be in jail? Is there a chance for parole? Was he/she a good mate when we were together? Was he dedicated to me? How long have we been together? I POSED THIS QUESTION and got a response from a man. He was very honest and I truly appreciate his honesty. He told me that yes, he would wait for his mate if his mate were locked up. Now the being faithful part is the part that he has the problem with. He says that he would not probably be faithful because it is not in his make-up. I find that to be very interesting. I guess it would be very hard for a man to go without sex, especially for twenty-seven (27) years. I guess he would be totally out of his mind. SOME men find it very difficult being faithful to their girlfriend or wife, so I guess it would be unreasonable of me to think that some men would be faithful when their mate is not physically available. I POSED THIS QUESTION and got a response from a woman. She was very honest as well and I truly appreciate her honesty. She said that she did not have any problem being faithful to her mate and that YES she would wait patiently for twenty-seven (27) years. When she said that someone questioned her honesty. I think the reason why her honesty was questioned is because the person evidently never had a ride or die chic. A REAL, REAL WOMAN. When you truly love someone, make a commitment, make a VOW to that person and deeply love that person, you would never turn your back on them under reasonable circumstances, especially under dire ones. I really think that you have to look at the training, upbringing and the examples in life that the person has seen and experienced. You also have to look at the integrity level of that person as well. In some cases and probably most, it seems that women have the tendency to hold themselves sexually than men for some reason. ANYWAY, I totally BELIEVE her. I believe that she would love him close or afar with faithfulness. She is definitely a rare and unique woman! She is a woman to be CHERISHED! SHE IS A SUPERWOMAN! I READ A REAL LIFE STORY YESTERDAY about a man who was wrongly accused and wrongly convicted of a crime. He was sentenced and served twenty-seven (27) years in jail. Before going to jail he met a woman and they were dating for a year before he went to jail. When he went to jail she was pregnant. Don't you know that this woman waited for this man for twenty-seven years!!!!! Yes, you heard me right TWENTY-SEVEN YEARS! During this time she raised the one child they had together, and his two children from a previous relationship. Talking about dedication and real, true, unconditional LOVE! WHAT A REMARKABLE WOMAN! THERE YOU HAVE IT WONDERFUL MEN AND WOMEN! Tell me your thoughts on the matter. Tell me how you feel. Tell me how you REALLY feel. Don't hold back! Please COMMENT, SHARE, LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE. Until the next time people. BE KIND, BE CAREFUL, BE SAFE AND BE FAITHFUL!

IS MUSIC YOUR THERAPY?

I LOVE music. I really love music. I really do love music. I can listen to it twenty four hours a day, seven days a week. I like classy, non violent, non degrading, up-building type of music. Music that soothes the soul. I admit that sometimes I get down with country music, some blues, jazz, a little rap (some J. Cole) and even some GO GO, but I am especially fond of the OLDIES but GOODIES type of music. When music was R-E-A-L music. I like music that can make you shake your booty, nod your head and make you wiggle your body in your seat. I like music that has a message, a message that is clean and reasonable. Of course being the ROMANTIC that I am , I LOVE, LOVE SONGS. I love those songs that make you want to fall in love. I love music but not when it is extremely loud, and overpowering. I hate when my neighbors (hint, hint) have music so loud that it shakes my ceiling and makes my walls tremble, playing music so loud on the side of my window that is shakes my bed. Be for REAL. That is soo inconsiderate. I don't like when someones music invades my privacy. That is rude, just plain rude. I OFTEN USE MUSIC AS THERAPY. Music helps me sort out my feeling sometimes. It helps me bring out some powerful emotions that are buried deep down inside that need to come up and out. You know what I mean! The emotions may come from stress. Job issues, love issues, death issues, friend issues, family issues, dealing with the general public type of issues or maybe I just need a walk down memory lane. Sometimes I just close my eyes and let the music take over. It is like I am in another type of world. YOU ALREADY KNOW that since I said that I am a romantic that on my list is MR. LUTHER VAN DROSS! He had the music, the words, and the voice to make person want to fall in love. Even his remakes are so sultry with spice. Every one would always say that Luther made baby making music, and I know this is probably true. My favorites, since you asked (LOL), are Here and Now, Always and Forever, Dance with my Father, Superstar, A House is Not a Home, Take you Out, Think about You and the list goes on and on and on. I am so sorry that he is gone. He added so much to the music industry. I am so glad his music is immortalized so to speak, so that we can listen to it whenever we want. NEXT ON MY LIST is none other then THE KING OF POP HIMSELF, MICHAEL JACKSON! I have heard so many things and so many opinions about Michael through the years. I don't know if they are true or not BUT one thing that no one can deny is that the man could WRITE EXCELLENT MUSIC, SING AND DANCE. I love his music because of the beat and rhythm but mostly the ones that would make you think. The ones that has a message that could change your life. The songs I like are: Man in the Mirror, They don't Care about Us, Dancing Machine, You are not Alone, Back or White, Don't Stop Till You Get Enough, Remember The Time, I wanna Rock With You, Blame it On the Boogie. The list of course goes on and on and on with this one as well. I am a big fan of the Jackson five also. I HAVE TO MENTION BOYS II MEN. To me and many others, there is just something spectacular about these men. Their voices, music, lyrics, harmony and presence makes their music perfect for my therapy sessions. I see why they have lasted the test of time because they sing R-E-A-L music. I can wrap myself in my own arms, rock back and forth and fall asleep to them. I love me some BOYS II MEN. I love Season to loneliness, Thank you in Advance, A Song For Momma, Doin Just Fine, Open Arms, It's so Hard to say Goodbye, Never, and MY ALL TIME FAVORITE, I NEVER CAN GET ENOUGH OF THIS SONG~ END OF THE ROAD. THERE YOU HAVE IT ONCE AGAIN. The musical artist that I use for therapy. I use so many artist but of course I don't have the space to name them all (I need a lot of musical therapy-LOL). Tell me who you listen to. Tell me what you think. What type of music and what artist best suits you for therapy. Don't be shy and talk to me. Please COMMENT, LIKE, SHARE AND SUBSCRIBE. Until the next time my babies. BE KIND, BE CONSIDERATE, BE THOUGHTFUL, BE CAREFUL , BE SAFE AND LISTEN TO SOME GOOD, GOOD THERAPY MUSIC!

HOW CAN I THIN MY BLOOD NATURALLY?

Diabetes, High Blood Pressure, High Cholesterol, Heart Attacks, many illnesses, and blood disorders may cause problems with the blood. The blood may become thick, sluggish and stick together causing a clot. Blood clots can be very dangerous because they can travel from any place in the body and end up at the lung, heart, or brain, etc... causing major problems. Individuals may decide turn to the medical field for help. In some cases the doctor may provide a prescription for blood thinners. One infamous prescribed blood thinner is called Coumadin. Coumadin has been around of many, many years. This drug has great benefits BUT like other prescribed drugs it has side effects and intersections that can be DEADLY. WHAT MAY CAUSE THE BLOOD TO CLOT? Whenever there is an interruption of the natural blood flow, a blood clot can be formed. The body is exposed to many substances, some may be waxy build-ups which can formulate inside an artery. This waxy build, called plaque is exposed to blood triggering the blood clotting process. Atrial fibrillation can contribute to blood clots. Atrial fibrillation is when the heart rhythm is not normal. During this time, blood pools can form in the heart, potentially forming blood clots. If a blood clot gets loose and moves toward the brain, it can cause a stroke. If a person is unable to move for a certain period of time, this can reduce the blood flow in the legs, increasing the risk for blood clots in the leg veins. WITH SO MANY HEALTH RISK THAT ARE INVOLVED CONCERNING BLOOD CLOTS, ARE THERE ANY ALTERNATIVES? The answer to that question is YES. There are many alternatives that can be used, some are even healthy and natural. Some you may know about and others you may not know about. Lets take a look. (1) Number one on the list is ASPIRIN. Aspirin has been used for centuries from aches to pains, from headaches to the common cold. Aspirin has been used also to thin the blood. As with many man made medications there are side effects. It is recommended that persons should take a low dosage or a baby aspirin to make sure that the blood is not thinned out too much. PLEASE CONSULT A HEALTH CARE PROFESSIONAL BEFORE TAKING MEDICATION WHETHER THEY ARE OVER THE COUNTER OR NOT. (2) Number two on this list is an oldy but goody, APPLE CIDER VINEGAR. Apple Cider Vinegar has been used for years as a natural cure for most. People use it to cook with, for weight loss, to restore hair follicles, to make salad dressings, marinades, chutney's, etc..., etc..., etc... and Yes, it is used as a blood thinner as well.BE CAREFUL DO NOT DRINK TOO MUCH BECAUSE IT CAN CAUSE TOOTH DECAY, LOWER POTASSIUM LEVELS, REDUCE BONE DENSITY, AND CAUSE ESOPHAGEAL BURNS. (3) Number three on the list is CAYENNE PEPPER. This hot and fiery spice has been burning up tongues forever. The ingredient that is of great benefit in this spice is called Capsaicin. This active ingredient is also used in sports and pain medications, as well as weight loss medications. (4) Number four at your door is CINNAMON. This spice is used in cooking from making apple pies, to parfaits as well as smoothies BUT is acts as a blood thinner also. It is said that Cassia Cinnamon should be used because it has the best blood thinning component. (5) Number five may keep you alive. Number five's list owner is CURRY POWDER. Curry powder is a popular spice that is used around the world. This spice is very popular and is known for being used in Indian cuisine. It has a number of valuable health benefits, including the prevention of cancer, heart disease, and even Alzheimer's disease. It is well known as an anti-coagulant, which means it helps to thin the blood. (6) Number six on the list you can get your breath fixed (lol). Number six is GARLIC. Garlic has been used to give foods that BANG of a taste. Garlic has a very strong aroma that can be detected from miles away. Mostly everyone loves the taste of garlic but mostly no one likes the lingering smell it leaves on the clothes or the breath. Garlic has many wonderful and useful properties, from lowering cholesterol to boosting the immune system. The active ingredient, which is allicin, is responsible for it's wonderful medical qualities, including the thinning of the blood. THERE YOU HAVE IT! WAYS TO NATURALLY THIN THE BLOOD. Thank you for reading my blog post. Now, it is time for you to tell me what you use naturally to thin your blood. I would love to hear from you. Please COMMENT, LIKE, SHARE AND GO ALL THE WAY DOWN TO THE END OF THE PAGES AND SUBSCRIBE. Until the next time. BE KIND, BE CAREFUL, BE ALERT AND BE SAFE!

WHAT TYPE OF WOMEN DO MEN REALLY WANT?

I like talking to men. I like talking to women. I like talking to people in general. I often talk to men because it amazes me how they think. Men are so different than women in so many ways. I often wonder, how it would feel to be a man. Not just in a physical sense but in a mental and emotional way as well. What do they think about? How do they feel? What do they think? How often do they meditate on matters? How do they think? What do they think about women? What do they like about women? Do you they really want LOVE? and What type of women do men really want? I HAVE TALKED TO MEN that claim that they are single. They claim that they can not find the woman that they truly want. Then there are some men who have so many women in their lives as their so called "friends", "special friends", "friends with benefits", "kick it girls", "bed partners", "one night stands", "sex buddies", "booty calls", "hold me down chics", and so on and so forth. They tell me that they are dating and sexing multiple women because they are looking for the right one. I HAVE NOTICED the harem of women that some men have. Some men have the same type of women (physically, mentally and emotionally) and some men have women that are totally different from one another. When I see men with a harem of different woman, I often wonder how they separate their emotional feelings for isolation in order to find the "right one"? HAVE YOU EVER SEEN a man with a woman and wondered, why in the world is he with her? What does he see in her? She may be a woman that is considered a "hood rat", "ratchet", a "rough neck", "violent", has a "toilet mouth" , a "plain Jane", a "big girl", a "gold digger", or just has an "attitude". Is there something, some quality or qualities that this woman must possess to draw these men to them, or is it just the physical? I KNOW THAT MEN ARE PHYSICAL BEINGS, they are definitely turned on by what they see. That is why a lot of men break their necks, and run into the back of cars because they are looking at women with big breast, and bodacious butts. I guess that is why some men like going to strip clubs because half naked or naked women are showing off their bodies. But is that ALL men look at? Do they have any substance? DO MEN LOOK AT QUALITIES? Being the physical beings that men are, they look at physical attributes first. Some men like full breast, some like round butts, some like illuminating smiles, some like beautiful and sparking eyes, some like juicy calf's, and some like long legs that go on for days. After men scan for those physical attributes that they want to be intensely attracted to, they move toward other qualities. What do they look for? What qualities do men look for in a women? (1) A MAN WANTS A WOMAN WHO IS AN OPEN COMMUNICATOR. So many times I hear men say to women, "I can not read your mind". Sometimes instead of telling men what we really feel and what we really want, women give clues and hints. Some women feel that if men really knew them, they would know how they think, how they feel and what they want. This isn't the case at all. There need to be plain spoken, direct, and straight forward, understandable conversations. Sometimes men really don't have a clue (2) A MAN WANTS A WOMAN WHO HAS A SENSE OF HUMOR. Some things in life we need to take seriously and some things are not that serious. A man likes a woman he can laugh and joke with. Someone that can make him smile. This can help to down play those moments in life that deplete happiness. (3) A MAN WANTS A WOMAN WHO LIKES AND WANTS TO COOK. There is a saying that "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach". Some men say yes and some men say no. The majority of the men I have talked to say absolutely YES! Most men love to eat. Men love it when women take out time to cook a loving and wholesome meal. To some men this shows that you are considerate and that you really and truly care. THERE YOU HAVE IT! THREE THINGS THAT MEN WANT. I WISH I COULD NAME EVERYTHING, BUT I CAN'T. YOU CAN HELP ME OUT BY TELLING ME WHAT YOU THINK. Please COMMENT, SHARE, LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE. Until the next time BE KIND, BE LOVING, BE CAREFUL AND BE SAFE!

WHAT IS ON YOUR MIND?

What is on your mind? What is truly on your mind? I asked this question because there is soooo much on my mind. There is so much information that is floating through my mind as I read the newspaper or articles on line. Are you thinking about Michael Brown and his parents? Are you thinking about Robin Williams, his suicide and his struggles with depression? Are you thinking about GAZA and the terrorizing by ISIS? Are you thinking about ALS and the fundraisers? Are you thinking about the shooting of Suge Knight at the Chris Brown Pre VMA's party? Are you thinking about the divorce rumors of Beyonce and Jay Z ? Are you thinking about Mariah Carey and Nick Canon's separation? Are you thinking about the earthquake in California? Are you thinking about the countless murders that happen everyday in your area? The senseless violence that can affect your life as well as your children? What are you thinking about? What really matters to you? The world is in so much turmoil right now. Mind you, yes there has always been problems, issues locally, nationally and internationally BUT I guess in this day and time they are just getting to me. Where do I start? THE DEATH OF MICHAEL BROWN. That name, Michael Brown is probably known in every household around the world. Michael Brown was an unarmed, Black/African American, eighteen year old male that was gunned down by the police in Ferguson, Missouri on August 9, 2014. His murder has caused an uproar, and much controversy in the community locally, nationally and internationally, forging a wider gap between the police and the citizens of Ferguson, Missouri. The facts behind the case are some what sketchy. He said this, and she said that. This was done and this was not. This autopsy report says this and the other autopsy report says something different. Some have even started a smear campaign against a young boy that can not even defend himself. When will the truth be revealed? Who will be held accountable and When will the truth finally shine forth? I KNOW ONE ABSOLUTE TRUTH and that is Michael Brown's parents are in indescribable pain. I can only imagine how they must feel. They have lost their young son to a violent death, never to see him again! I know they are devastated. My prayers definitely go out to his family and friends. ROBIN WILLIAMS. Robin Williams, Mr. Funny man himself. He was what some considered an ICON. A celebrity that would make you cry with laughter and put a smile on your face. His death, his suicide was one of tragedy. This man decided that suicide was the way for him. Evidently he was suffering pain for various reasons. It was said that he suffered with depression which lead to his suicide. You never know what is truly behind a smile! My prayers go out to his family, and friends as well. THE MURDERS AND THE KILLINGS. In the DMV area one recent incident has been constantly on my mind. This incident, rather I say this tragedy involves a little three (3) year old girl. This three year old little girl was involved in a custody battle between her mother and her father according to the news. According to sources, the father barged his way into the home of the child's grandparents, shooting them and kidnapping the child. The police is called and a chase is pursued. Gun shots are fired which leads to the death of the father. What makes it all sad also is that this shoot out leads to the death of the precious little three year old. The little girl was found dead in the vehicle with her father. It has been said that her throat was cut, or slashed and she had a bullet to the head. Is this really true? Did her father actually kill her. Did this loving and doting dad murder his own child over a custody battle? Was he that selfish? I can only imagine how it feels to lose a child, one you love so very much. There are so many unanswered questions concerning this. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE HOW HER MOTHER IS FEELING. My prayers go out to her family and friends! THERE YOU HAVE IT PEOPLE! I have those things on my mind. I actually have so much more but I do not have enough time to express myself as I please. Tell me what is on your mind. Tell me what you are thinking about. I really want to know. Please SUBSCRIBE, COMMENT, SHARE AND LIKE. Until the next time. BE MINDFUL, BE KIND, BE WATCHFUL, AND BE SAFE!

WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU FOUND OUT OR CAUGHT YOUR MATE CHEATING?

Some people are soooo sneaky. Some people are soooo careful. They make sure that they cross their T's and dot their I's. No one can catch them in the act. Sometimes men, women, people are sloppy and careless. Some people get so comfortable in their cheating that they leave themselves wide open to being caught. Many times they not only get caught, but they get caught doing the cheating act. If you caught your man, your woman, your mate cheating, what would you do? I have often asked myself this question. I know one thing, IT WOULD TOTALLY DEVASTATE ME! To be frankly honest I don't know what I would do? If that did happen to me I know that all of the knives should be put away. All of the water should be turned off. All of the cooking oil should be thrown out. My car keys should be hidden. All rope and chains should be discarded, and all glass and mirrors should be locked up. I stated to someone many years ago that if my mate cheated on me that "HE HAS TO GO, NO IF'S, AND'S OR BUT'S". I guess that is easier said than done, coming from a person who is not in that situation, nor has ever been. If you found out or caught your mate cheating would you GO or would you STAY? I HAVE NEVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION BUT I KNOW A FEW THAT HAVE BEEN. THIS IS A TRUE STORY! I remember talking to women about their mates and many of them were not faithful. One person I talked to had been with her mate ever since she was fourteen (14), yes fourteen (14) years old. He was about ten (10), yes ten (10) years older than she was. They fell in love and he asked her parents if he could have her hand in marriage. They got married and they had one child, and ended up taking on other family members children, and adopting them as their own. The wife always felt loved and cared for by her husband. He did not want her to work a secular job, actually he demanded that she not work a secular job (in a good way) because he was the man of the house, he took on the lead as the household provider. The wife was constantly at home alone without her mate, spending time raising the children. She would be very lonely as her husband started to work very long hours. In her gut she knew something was wrong. Her woman's intuition kept telling her that SOMETHING WAS VERY, VERY WRONG. In the long run she was right. The information came out that her husband had been spending time and having an affair with another woman. WHAT MAKES THIS SO CRAZY is that the other woman, WAIT FOR IT, WAIT FOR IT, was her very own sister. Her sister ended up getting pregnant with her husband's child and giving birth. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE THE BETRAYAL THAT THIS WOMAN FELT NOT ONLY FROM HER HUSBAND BUT ALSO BY HER SISTER! This woman decided not to leave her husband, she stayed married to him but cut all ties with her sister. THIS IS NOT THE END OF THE STORY! This woman decided to forgive her husband and to move on with her life, hoping that he would love her continually and be faithful to her. She felt that he was a man and imperfect and that all of us makes mistakes. UNTIL THE CHEATING HAPPENED AGAIN! This man decided to cheat again BUT what makes this cheating so devastating is that he decided to take on a mistress and live with her. Little by little his clothes was leaving the house and some nights he did not go home. His wife was wondering what was going on, but never really asked because she already knew the answer to the question. After doing her investigation she confirmed her wildest hurts that he was cheating again. This time it was not a one time, or little fling like with her sister, but this would go on for over twenty years. YET SHE ACCEPTED THIS ARRANGEMENT, AND SHE LIVED WITH THIS DECISION AS I SAID FOR OVER TWENTY YEARS! I AM NOT FINISHED! This woman was comfortable with the decision she made in forgiving her husband so to speak. At least she knew who the woman was , and his whereabouts. Actually in several times of crisis she went over to the mistress house to retrieve her man. This woman decide to live comfortable within her situation. The DUMB mistress would fall for his lines and he would not have to give her money for bills. This man would eat at home with his wife and then go to his mistress house and half eat the food she prepared and then throw it away. This man would even still money and other objects from his mistress to take to his wife. He constantly told his wife he loved her and that she was the TRUE LOVE of his life! WHAT HAPPENED NEXT? One day this woman, the wife started to notice that she had these unusual bumps forming on her body, as time went on these bumps became what is called legions. These bumps had become larger in size, very scaly and pussy. They took on a life of their own spreading all over her body. This woman decided to go to the doctor where she found out that she had SYPHILIS! She was in the final stages, in which to my understanding can be deadly! YES, you heard me right SYPHILIS. This man, well into his seventies at this time gave this disease not only to his wife BUT to his mistress as well. THIS LOW DOWN DIRTY DOG, YES THIS LOW DOG DIRTY DOG had been sleeping with HIS WIFE, HIS MISTRESS AND EVERY DIRTY THING THAT WALKED AROUND IN A SKIRT. FOR SOME SAD REASON THAT I DO NOT UNDERSTAND, THIS WOMAN CONTINUED TO STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS MAN CALLED HER HUSBAND. I DON'T KNOW WHY? I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND HER REASONING ON THIS FOR THE LIFE OF ME. What a sad and pitiful life marriage story! THERE YOU HAVE IT PEOPLE! There are many reasons people cheat on their mates. Reasons that I of course do not know and probably would not understand. I feel that if a person has made a dedication to a person and to the relationship that he or she should be faithful. If the person can not be faithful then they should just walk away.I hope and pray that I never experience the pain that accompanies cheating from a mate! Thank for reading! Please LIKE, SHARE, COMMENT AND SUBSCRIBE! Until the next time. BE KIND, BE CARING, BE FAITHFUL AND BE SAFE!

SHOULD CHILD MOESTERS BE CASTRATED?

Sexual molestation has been happening for years. It has been a threat to society, a threat to children, a threat to humanity, it has been a threat forever. The media all over the world reeks with stories of child molesting. We hear about PRIEST sexually abusing their child parishioners. We hear hear about PARENTS sexually abusing their children. We hear about TEACHERS sexually abusing their students. We hear about GRANDPARENTS sexually abusing their grandchildren. We hear about STRANGERS sexually abusing innocent babies. What is going on in the minds of these molesters? Are they crazy? Are they demonized? Are they sexually frustrated? Do they have deranged, and diabolical minds? What is wrong with them? Can they be cured? Should they be killed? Should they be castrated? Can they ever be trusted again? Is there a cure for them? Can they be helped? Should they receive prison time? Should they receive life in prison? Would electric shock hold the key? Can they be rehabilitated? Do they get fair sentencing? Should the penis or the vagina be removed (this is different from castration) ? If there is castration, should it be chemical or surgical? If a person is castrated, would this stop sexual molestation? Is it a mental problem? Is sexual molestation a physical and mental collaboration? Is castration reversible? What holds the key? These are some of the questions that come up into my mind, and maybe yours also! WHAT IS CASTRATION? According to Wikipedia,"Castration (also known as neutering or gonadectomy) is any action, surgical, chemical, or otherwise, by which a biological male loses use of the testes. (Orchiectomy specifically refers to surgical castration, removal of one or both testes, and chemical castration uses pharmaceutical drugs.) This causes sterilization (i.e., prevents them from reproducing); it also greatly reduces the production of certain hormones, such as testosterone.The term "castration" is sometimes also used to refer to the removal of the ovaries in the female, otherwise known as an oophorectomy or, in animals, spaying. Estrogen levels drop precipitously following oophorectomy, and long-term effects of the reduction of sex hormones are significant throughout the body". SOME CHILD MOLESTERS OPT FOR OR ASK FOR CASTRATION! Some sex offender laws around the nation are encouraging the sex offenders to opt for castration. Some say that this is necessary in order to prove that these people are fit to return to society. Some offenders ask for castration because they do not want to spend the rest of their lives in prison. There are plenty of arguments for and against castration. Some say it it "cruel and usual punishment", while others are looking for different ways to work and change the libido of individuals. Some call it barbaric, while others are not totally convinced it will work. According to some Physicians think that surgery WILL ONLY WORK ON THOSE WHOSE SEX DRIVE MOTIVATES THEIR CRIMES . For those who commit these heinous crimes who lack a conscience and who commit these rimes because of alcohol, and drug abuse, it will not work. Some victim and right advocacy groups argue that this will not work because the offenders can easily nullify the surgery by using drugs, gels and patches that will boost their testosterone levels. A CASE OF CASTRATION! There is a seventy-eight year old prisoner named Francis Phillip Tullier. He was surgically castrated this week as part of his plea deal in his child molestation case. He was arrested back in 1997 , and according to news sources was facing more than 6,00 thousand, yes 6,000 counts of aggravated sexual battery accounts of a juvenile. He had been doing this for over 20 years. Some of these assaults were done while these children were in the care of their baby sitter, which happened to be his wife. Mr. Tullier has a lawyer named Mr. Nathan Fisher. His lawyer agreed that such an extreme action was needed if the victims and prosecutors would come to an agreement that let this man leave jail before he died. Mr. Tullier had been sentenced for 27 years. With the castration, after 13 years of prison Mr. Tullier was paroled under certain conditions. IN MY OPINION! I think that in theory this sounds reasonable. It may work for some but may not work FOR MOST OR THE MAJORITY. I find it very interesting that some advocacy groups can rally or support the rights of individuals that have violated children sexually. These predators, sexually abusers, these molesters have snatched and destroyed the lives of innocent children! They have destroyed innocent, unwilling lives with their sexual perversions. What happened to the rights of an innocent sexually abused child? How dare you! How dare you! THERE YOU HAVE IT MY OPINION! Thanks for reading. Please SHARE, LIKE, SUBSCRIBE AND COMMENT. Until the next time. BE DISCERNING, BE CARING, BE KIND, BE WATCHFUL AND BE CAREFUL!